My parents were in the restaurant/bar business in Brooklyn, NY. They had an Irish bar/restaurant called 'Molly Maguire’s Pub' and an Italian restaurant called 'Mario’s Trattoria'. Neither of my parents were Irish nor for that matter Italian. I remember my older brother cracking wise, telling my father, "You should open a Chinese joint, and call it: Sum-Dum-Fuk" to which my father replied, "Why would I name a restaurant after you?"
In 1963, when I was sixteen, my parents opened a nightclub called Bentley’s, which attracted a mixed gay/straight African-American crowd. Mom and Dad weren’t African-American, either. My father was a mild-mannered WASP, originally from Kennebunk Maine, and my mother was a feisty French woman, who was born in Marseille, and grew up in Québec City, Canada.
Around this time, my parents thought it was time for me to start learning the family business, so most afternoons after school, I went to one of the businesses. My favorite place was Bentley’s because Blue was there. In the kitchen I leaned to do food prep, and cook. In the main room, Blue taught me how to mix drinks, open wine bottles, set up tables and how to use the sound system. Every afternoon, Blue gave me a dance lesson, while R&B 45s played. He always yelled, "Let your backbone slip, girl! Let it SLIP!". We had a dance routine, we did to James Brown’s "Night Train". Bentley’s was known for its music, which was very much "right now" so every few weeks Blue gave me a pile of 45s he referred to as "over" and "tired". Blue also taught me to sip cocktails and smoke cigarettes, but that was our secret.
Throughout high school on the weekends, I was waiting tables at Molly Maguire’s Pub and Mario’s Trattoria, which were all along the same subway line, as was Bentley’s which was off limits to me at night. So one night instead of going home, I dropped by Bentley’s to see what was going on, and to see if all the stories I heard were true. I could hear the music from a few doors away, and when I went inside the place was going wild. At the end of the dance floor was Blue spinning records, when he saw me, he waved me towards him. As I walked toward him, a large hand grabbed my arm, it was Alton, who told me, "You ain't supposed to be here at this time of night, in this neighborhood, Miss Babs!" Blue said to Alton: "Just one dance." He picked up his microphone and said, "I’m going to dance this one with my girlfriend, Babs Bunny" which caused everyone to laugh. Blue played "Night Train", and we did our dance routine. Afterward, while Alton was escorting me out, to put me in a cab home, a woman said to me, "That was pretty good.....yeah, for a white girl".
When I went away to college, Blue and I wrote letters to each other, and every so often a package of 45s would arrive. During the summers when I returned to New York, Blue and I would party, only now weed entered the mix along with cocktails, Dexamyl, and cigarettes. One magical Sunday in the summer of 1968, we dropped acid in Central Park, and on our way to The Metropolitan Museum of Art, we did our Night Train routine by Bethesda fountain to the amusement of the hippies.
In the 70s, Alton and Blue moved to San Francisco, where they opened a Disco. Whenever I hear James Brown, I think of Blue.
Star Time is a 1991 71-track, 4-CD box set by James Brown. Its contents span most of the length of his career up to the time of its release, starting in 1956 with his first hit record, "Please, Please, Please", and ending with "Unity", his 1984 collaboration with Afrika Bambaataa. Its title comes from the question Brown's announcer would ask concert audiences, as heard on the album 'Live at the Apollo, "Are you ready for star time?"
For the freeload, tell us what was the last thing you bought that wasn't food or drink?


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ReplyDeleteA ticket on the London tube.
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DeleteA tone control knob for my uber-rare Stetch K64 guitar.
ReplyDelete(Fantastic story, Babs! Wotta life!)
My favorite sunscreen (Thrive Bodyshield) was on sale, so I stocked up. While I was there, I treated my self to a new pair of Ray-Ban Clubmasters.
ReplyDeleteRegular gas for my Honda ($$$$) that was way-way-way too too too EXPENSIVE.
ReplyDeleteMercifully, regular unleaded is down to $2.79 here. Still seems so high to someone who started out paying $0.279 for gas, but it's 50 cents less per gallon than it was a month ago.
Deletea shower filter hose. real exciting ! LOL
ReplyDeleteNew shoes.
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DeleteFor the dead!
DeletePara mis pies!
DeleteLos pies no me fallan ahora
Yesterday late afternoon I cycled to Villa Supermarket & bought 3 packs of Arabica & Robusta morning roasted coffee beans + a pack of muesli... No beer as I try to keep those for weekends only ;-)
ReplyDeleteKoen, in what way are these comestibles *not* food or drink?
DeleteA person much wiser than myself once said, "Put your metaphysics where your mouth Is."
DeleteAmazing, somehow I completely missed the '*not* food or drink' part, silly me...
DeletePerhaps the last non-food thing I bought was a real paperbook, David Hepworth's A Fabulous Creation - How The LP Saved Our Lives', great read!
That sounds like a book worth seeking out! The last non-food item I bought was... another record.
DeleteI too enjoyed your story, Babs!
Same here Babs, now we finally know where your nickname originated! One good story deserves another, here's a pdf of David Hepworth's A Fabulous Creation - How The LP Saved Our Lives' - https://mega.nz/file/mdsw2Qpb#th2CS2atzRDABPnz8AJeeYtyTTXNfpdPI9pAUOP-Qxs
DeleteNo beer? What do you pour on the muesli?
DeleteRegional aside: I once heard someone call it "muleslick"...
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A pair of 'nearly new' denim jeans from a charity shop. When I got home and tried them on, they were way too short for me (doh!). Anyone want a pair of size 32 Bloggs jeans?
ReplyDeleteBirthday gifts for daughter (today's her birthday!) & granddaughter (her birthday is Tuesday!). Thanks Babs.
ReplyDeleteHad to replace my Weber Kettle charcoal grill which literally fell apart just after I got the food off the grill last week. It was well used.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the great story -- love it!!
Just purchased a gallon of Sherwin-Williams paint!
ReplyDeleteSo, because I'm that kinda guy, and in the spirit of tomorrow being dia de papa in the good ole USA, here's a 4 cd box set that I just acquired via the good folks who sell on discogs. Its a wonderful overview of Tom Jobim's career, together with some of the artwork. And, all of it is in glorious flac! https://mega.nz/folder/JzYDjToZ#dw5ZazM935yK_p2GgcVkPg
ReplyDeleteThanks pmac, can never have too much Jobim!
DeleteThanks, pmac!
DeleteSorry, forgot to add to the chorus of what a fantastic, great, very good biographical story that you've provided. Great memories rule! As always, thanks Babs
ReplyDeleteSome CDs including the new Rascals boxset and the new Barry Ryan boxset....
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ReplyDeleteOne more grift, er I mean gift, for the weekend. Alvin "Shine" Robinson was a gifted guitarist, vocalist, and songwriter from New Orleans, who broke into the music scene in the early '60s. Unfortunately for Alvin, his voice, and music, sounded incredibly similar to Ray Charles'. While Robinson had a busy schedule working as a studio musician and sideman in touring groups (played frequently with Dr John in the 60s-70s), he never released a full album as a leader. But, he did record 30 singles, which are now sought after by collectors. Here's a compilation of all 30. https://mega.nz/folder/FuAARRjT#t5QzXXEM_Pji1LoeL52S3Q
ReplyDeleteAlvin (most famous I guess for Down Home Girl) alo has a couple of tracks on Dr John's Hollywood Be Thy Name including a guitar instro of Blue Skies - recommended.
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Thanx for t'book pmac.
Bugger, Thanx for t'book artK, Thanx for Tom J pmac
DeleteThanks, pmac!
DeleteCan't remember the last thing I bought. I'm just here to say what a wonderful story. I called my wife over and read it aloud to her. Thanks, Babs!
ReplyDeleteDog chew toys, Lobster 1 Starfish
ReplyDeleteI bought a 14 TB Western Digital My Book external hard drive to back up my files. Last night, my QNAP N.A.S. filled up and went offline, as did my 6TB external. While I can still access the 6TB drive, my policy is 2x or 3x backup, so I bought another drive, jumping up to 14 TB. I'll figure out the access problem with the NAS; if I can't, I'll buy another array.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, this is a Public Service Announcement: all of you folks are music collectors; you used to pay redonkulous amounts of money for rare records, bootleg albums, etc. Jeez...$60.00 for a 3-cd set of Springsteen at Winterland? Yeah, that was the 90s.
So...uh... are you BACKED UP, twice? Or thrice? If not, you should be. Because all of these drives will (eventually) fail. Yeah, it's boring, yeah, it costs money, but come on...this is like flossing... just go do it. Go buy that extra drive, and back your collection up.
Too true. I just lost the external drive that I move all my FLAC files to once I have tagged, renamed & reorganized them. Fortunately I do back up this and my other drives to another external drive on a semi-regular basis but I did lose a good handful of the lossless versions I last processed since that last backup. At least I still have the mp3 copies of these I made for mobile listening (copied to two other drives!) but this warning should definitely be heeded by all. Your drives will fail so back them up now!!
DeleteI back up to a 4TB Toshiba Canvio and also to the clod - I use Livedrive which is about £85 per year. I paid £4 for Dylan at the "Albert Hall" in 1974, does that count?
DeleteHi, Dave, and yes, that counts. As MrDave's experience (and mine) show, it's just something we've got to do. The cloud is a good option, too.
DeleteA Sharkbite PVC40 to CPVC push-fit adapter for a cold water line.
ReplyDeleteP.S. The story for this post was a wonderful piece of writing, Babs.
Gasoline... and hair wax for a friend who likes to wear a quiff
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